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If you can play, it doesn't matter if
you're gay
By Eric Lansing
lansing@mscd.edu
Is there room for homosexuals in the world of sports?
Hearing
about former NBA basketball player John Amaechi coming out of
the closet a few weeks ago and then about Tim Hardaway’s
remarks towards gay men in professional basketball got me thinking
on the issue of sexual preferences in sports.
When we think
of male sports, we think of the physicality and strength it takes
to play football, baseball, hockey or basketball.
The stereotype of male athletes is that they are egocentric,
meatheaded gym rats and are very promiscuous, without a second’s
thought before spreading the word about their sexual adventures
to their buddies.
It’s no wonder Amaechi held his tongue
during his basketball career, fearing rejection by not only his
teammates but also
by the organizations that signed his paychecks. This is by no
means the way the NBA or any other organization should treat
any employee, whether they are gay, straight, black, white, woman
or man.
Amaechi played for numerous teams in his eight-year NBA
career, and according to his ESPN interview on Outside the Lines,
many
teammates had an inkling that he was “playing for the other
team.” But the 6-foot-10-inch, 270-pound center kept his
sexual orientation to himself until February 2007, four years
after his career ended.
So the question still hangs in the balance:
Can sports and homosexuality coexist in the same locker room?
According
to former NBA guard Tim Hardaway, the answer is no. In fact,
players like Hardaway seem to be the reason why gay
athletes never dare speak of their sexual orientation.
Hardaway
was asked how he would deal with a gay teammate and responded
by saying, “I hate gay people,” and, “It
shouldn’t be in the world or in the United States.”
It
is one thing to either disagree or to dislike someone else’s
choices, but to hate someone over those choices is ignorant, immature
and heinous.
Maybe Tim Hardaway doesn’t remember that it
wasn’t
too long ago that African-Americans were seen as the inferior race
and had to use different bathrooms from the superior Caucasians.
It
isn’t fair that heterosexuality is the sexual preference
accepted in today’s society and homosexuals have to be hush-hush
in order to keep their jobs and be looked upon as normal. But huge
strides have been made by gays, and they should continue to fight
for their rights just as women and African Americans have.
Although
I do not agree with persecuting others for sexual preferences,
religious affiliations, political agendas or even loyalty to a
sports team, I do believe that in a work environment, some things
should be kept to yourself. I am not saying you should not be proud
of being homosexual, a Democrat, or a Broncos fan. What I am saying
is anytime you become a part of a team, whether that be in sports,
retail or construction, everyone is different, and we are not required
to agree with one another’s beliefs. But we are required
to do our part to complete an overall task and to reach common
goals.
It shouldn’t matter on the court that Hardaway doesn’t
like homosexuals. His job was to win basketball games and collect
paychecks. It shouldn’t matter on the court that Amaechi
was gay, because his job was the same as Hardaway’s. The
controversy is only coming out now after both athletes are retired
and can no longer contribute on the court. Maybe they both knew
if they would have thrown their two cents on the table during their
careers, both would have been without a job.
There is no clear-cut
solution to this problem unless corporations decide to keep their
employees from speaking to one another on
personal matters and keeping it to work-only topics. But then
we become drones, and work becomes an even more intolerable place
to be.
It is sad that we live in a world so close-minded and fearful
of what is different. But we do live in that world, and we need
to
be respectful of others, which includes tolerating their intolerable
ignorance. |